Brave rewards on iOS linked to nonexisting desktop

So i’m actually quite lost, so sorry if this has been solved/works as intended.
I’m getting my info updated related to how brave works so i’ve been securing my BAT wallet on desktop and iOS. Now i see i can get my funds from my iOS into my main desktop account, but for some reason, in settings → brave rewards, the option to link them both doesnt show up. Checking on rewards internal im getting the vibe that my account from iOS is related to another desktop account already (which is possible since i switched computers almost a year ago and this would be the consequence of me clicking stuff i didnt understand).
Now, is there any way to get back my BAT? If not, is there a way to reset my iOS connection back to my desktop one?