Polar Opposite of "Immediately Switch to my New Tab blah.blah"

Polar Opposite of “Immediately Switch to my New Tab blah. blah”

That Aint How I Roll and I was unsuccessful to find any setting where I could choose what happens to the new tab when I click on it: Will it switch immediately to the new tab and make me go back? Will it open in a new tab in the background and I will have to manually click over?

My brain needs the former setting and all the threads seemed to have the opposite or nonrelevant problems or topics.

Sorry if it was addressed elsewhere, I appreciate your help!!! <3