No one likes loud videos to autoplay. Web designers don’t like when their pretty silent background videos are blocked. Ex: https://gravitywebworks.com/
Can you make a new default handling of the situation? Allow video to autoplay if the “muted” attribute is on the video tag. This is the way Chrome (and I think Safari) handle it.
But still give us the current options as well: Block, Allow if silent (default), Allow.
Minimizing ‘break the internet’ this way.